A memorial is often referred to as a Celebration of Life as they are an opportunity for people to come together at a later date from the initial bereavement, when the initial shock has perhaps subsided a little to be replaced by the loving memories of the life lived and happiness shared.
This is not to say it will not also be a time of solemn reflection. Many emotions will be present, no matter what length of time has elapsed since the passing, and the tone of the occasion can be shaped accordingly.
Since a memorial gathering does not require the services of a Funeral Director or attendance at a burial place or crematorium, there is much greater versatility as to location and duration. Aspects such as music, number of speakers and length of eulogies are no longer subject to the usual tight restrictions, further enabling the creation of a truly personal occasion, which will both honour the deceased and create an atmosphere of togetherness for the attendees.
I have a lengthy experience of organising and hosting all sorts of events and would be able to assist with the formation of a Memorial Service, should help be required. The service can be adapted to whatever tone and theme you have in mind. Everyone is unique in their own way and this is also the case for any events in which we remember those we have lost.
“It meant so much to me that we got my wife Emma’s celebration of life event just right and on the day we were all quite anxious. Ian’s words were great – they allowed us to reflect on both the joy of her life and the sadness of her loss in a way that pulled us together. It was so fitting and I cannot thank him enough.”
I. J. – 2020